I have often been asked if I do my daughter's hair. I always feel like saying, "Yes, can't you tell by the crooked parts and tufts of hair sticking up everywhere?" I am amazed by the moms who create wonderful geometric patterns in their daughter's hair. I would be satisfied with a straight line somewhere.
I realize that Baylie's hair is so thick that I need to start using more braids than I currently do, but that would take more time to fix her hair and I'm not ready to cross that bridge yet. I'm also not ready to pay $65+ to have a professional do it. Nevertheless, I've decided to blog about a hair day.
I didn't take a starting picture, but this was her last hairdo, which is two strands of hair twisted together all over her head. I really like it this way. It kind of looks like dreadlocks. I usually leave each hairdo in for two weeks to a month. By then it's starting to come undone.

It took close to an hour to undo her hair, afterwhich we have this look. Undoing her hair also means spraying on conditioner and brushing it out section by section. Baylie HATES having this done.

Next, I part her hair down the middle and pull back the side I'm not working on with clips. Then I separate a section to braid and pull back the rest of the hair on that side with a clip.

Her hair is extremely thick, so separating and parting is harder than it sounds.

Once the actual braiding begins, it's a process of convincing her of how much fun we are having and trying to get her to stay seated. (She starts to scream and fuss the minute I spray water on her head.)

Still trying... We usually move from the chair to the floor and back a few times. We get out lots of toys and other distractions.

At some point, I give up and just hold her in a vice grip between my legs.

Finally, after about three hours, three suckers, half of Sleeping Beauty, all of Cinderella, and part of two old Santa movies, we are half way through! At this point, Baylie and I both need lunch and a nap.
After she wakes up, I realize there is not time to finish her hair before I run my errands, so we go out with our half-done hairdo. We do cover it with a winter hat. (Note, that her hair just looked like this after her nap. I didn't do anything to make it stand up. I find her hair truly amazing.)
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Kristin- I had no idea that it takes that long to do Baylie's hair!! I have always thought that you do a good job with her hair. Unless you have an AA or BR little girl of your own or are in fact AA or BR, you can't possibly understand what goes into caring for hair like that. I'm sorry people ask you if you do it. That would just add insult to injery since it takes so blasted long to do it in the first place (not to mention taking it out)!
Bless you for doing her hair! (I know what your thinking, "Of course you would do her hair, your her mother", but some mothers don't...) I have a hard time getting Amelia to be still for just combing. I can't imagine working for more than 10 min- let alone 1.5+ for each side of a little head!!!! You truely amaze me! You are getting some good experience that I am sure you will have the opportunity to share with other adoptive mothers, if you haven't already. Practice makes perfect. I'm sure some day she will like having her hair done. But until then, good luck and keep up the lovely doo's! :)
LOL. What a doll!
What a task! I think her hair always looks great! But I can only imagine the headaches! It is great of you to post this, I knew it was a lot of work but I didn't know it took THAT long! I guess I will stop complaining about how Maddy doesn't have a lot of hair! :) She is such a beauty! When it warms up I would LOVE to do her pictures for you if you are interested.
Oops that last comment was me (Ginger) I was signed into the wrong blog!
Ha Ha!!! What a great post!!! What a good mommy you are too!!!
My girls still "shake their beads". And they insist on praying for Baylie and Ava in EVERY SINGLE prayer.
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