Saturday, March 29, 2014

Forsaking Facebook

Sorry that you're missing these beauties while I'm off facebook.
I'm not exactly forsaking facebook (I am always drawn to phrases with alliteration), I'm just consciously uncoupling from it for a month.

I love facebook. I love feeling close to my family members, even though we live a country apart from one another. I love seeing pictures of my nieces and nephews the same day that something exciting happens. I love keeping up with good friends, and catching up with long lost people who matter to me. I love seeing funny stories and interesting news. I love it when something I post gets lots of "likes." I love bragging about my awesome kids.
So why am I leaving? Because I don't love how much time I end up spending on facebook, even sometimes putting off my kids while I finish posting something I think is witty or reading something I think is important. I don't love analyzing everything that happens in my life to figure out how to turn it into a facebook post. I don't love getting caught up in drama that shouldn't matter. I don't love being misunderstood because my writing doesn't always convey what I think it does. I don't like worrying about the opinion of people who have no direct impact on my life and shouldn't matter as much as I seem to think they do.
Not sorry you're missing this beauty while I'm off facebook.
I have been facebook free for two days now and I have to confess, I haven't missed it.

Friday, March 21, 2014

Frozen Party

Baylie loves nothing more than watching movies and eating popcorn. So it wasn't a big surprise when she decided that she wanted her first ever birthday party to be a movie party. It worked out perfectly since Frozen came out right before her party.
She invited all her school friends and some friends from church as well. Each girl was given a Princess Elsa cape and a crown. You can't tell from this picture, but the capes were white with a lacy blue layer over the top, except for Baylie whose cape was a Princess Anna cape. (Shout out to my friend Erin without whom the capes would have been pathetic or non-existant. They turned out awesome.)
The girls were given Frozen money that they could use to purchase items from the concession stand.
The concession stand had cupcakes, candy, sugar dipped marshmallows, snowman donuts, Olaf noses, candy sticks and candy money. (The pom pom ball was made from tissue paper.)
We also had an official popcorn popper. (Thanks, Droppos!)
We served melted snowmen as a beverage. (Raisin eyes, cinnamon stick arms and carrot nose.)
Unfortunately, the cinnamon arms flavored the water and the girls weren't wild about it.
We played the movie with the subtitles on so the girls could sing along. They were so fun to watch! If you'd like to see a sample, click HERE.

Baylie loved opening presents, although she became a little shy.
Her friends knew her well and got her things that she really liked, especially lots of crafts and jewelry kits.
From the looks of it, everyone had a great time.
I know I did.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Happy 6th Birthday Baylie!

For several months, Baylie has been telling us that she wanted breakfast in bed on her birthday. She woke us up at 3:00 a.m., 4:00 a.m. and at 4:30 a.m. At 5:05 a.m. she announced that it was the most boring birthday ever.

By then, she was in our bed, so we had breakfast there. And our breakfast of champions?? Cake and ice cream!
While eating, Baylie said, "It's like Jalen's the prince, I'm the princess and you two are servants." (David wanted to know how that was different from any other day.)

Then it was present time!
Thanks, Grammy!
Thanks, Granny Janis!
This year, our birthday has kind of a theme - all related to the new Disney movie Frozen. Baylie is having her first ever party this year and we're watching the movie. I'll post about that later.
New birthday outfit from Grammy and stuffed animal from the Jennings.
This is how we spent our morning (dancing to the movie Frozen). (Can I confess to being terribly sad at how big my little girl is getting?)
I should probably apologize in advance to Baylie's teacher...

Ready for school!
She passed around Oreos to her class at lunch.

Baylie wanted extensions for her birthday, so on Saturday and Sunday, we put in 131 braids! Because it's her birthday and she's getting older, I let her wear them longer than ever before.

And now, a walk down memory lane.
5th Birthday
4th Birthday
3rd Birthday
2nd Birthday


1st Birthday
New arrival
It is a pleasure and an adventure to be Baylie's mom. She is a beautiful girl inside and out. I love that I get to share in her life.

Monday, March 17, 2014

The Slippery Slope of Apostasy

Note: This post probably won't make much sense to anyone that doesn't share my belief in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
I teach early morning Seminary. I love it. I have always loved working with the youth of the Church. I always try to tie in the things we are reading with things that are happening in the world and in the modern-day Church.

Today we were reading in Helaman 11. Verse 22 states, "And also they had peace in the seventy and eighth year, save it were a few contentions concerning the points of doctrine which had been laid down by the prophets." As I read this, I couldn't help but think of all the movements or commentaries within the modern-day Mormon church that question or contradict the prophet. In particular, it made me think of the Ordain Women movement.

Consequently, it was with great interest that later today I learned the Church had sent out a letter to the leader of the Ordain Women movement asking that they not protest at the upcoming priesthood session. (You can read that letter in a Deseret News article HERE.) I am assuming the Ordain Women movement provided the letter to the media. In this letter, an official spokesperson for the Church (who I was interested to see was a woman) states:

"Your organization has again publicized its intention to demonstrate on Temple Square during the April 5 priesthood session. Activist events like this detract from the sacred environment of Temple Square and the spirit of harmony sought at General Conference. Please reconsider."

The letter also explained that should they decide to protest anyway, they should join other protesters in designated free-speech zones.

The leader of the Ordain Women movement told the reporter that, "It's striking they would direct us to the free-speech zones. We feel as faithful, active Mormon women we have nothing in common with people who oppose the church and want to protest against it. The church is its members. We aren't against the church, we are the church."

This official spokesperson is speaking for the Church. By my interpretation, that means she is speaking for the prophet. By going against this request, the Ordain Women organization is, in fact, protesting - against the Church and the prophet. By protesting and taking their issues to the media, they are trying to force the hand of the leadership of the Church through external pressure. I struggle to find anything noble about this approach. Like those in the Book of Mormon mentioned above, they are contending regarding the points of doctrine with which they disagree. This is not the only time in the Book of Mormon when dissension from within the Church leads to apostasy. I believe these sisters are misguided and I think they are walking a very fine line between personal revelation and apostasy.

According to the Pew Research Center (an independent fact tank), only "one-in-ten Mormons (11%) believe that women should be ordained to the priesthood of their church, whereas 87% think the priesthood should be open only to males. Large majorities of both men and women express this view, but Mormon women are somewhat more likely than Mormon men to say the priesthood should be open only to males (90% vs. 84%). The belief that women should be ordained to the priesthood is less common among those who have the highest levels of religious commitment than among those with lower levels of commitment. Even among this latter group, however, nearly seven-in-ten (69%) say women should not be eligible for the priesthood."

In other words, 90% of the women of the Church do not agree with this movement. Ordain Women is not speaking for the women of the Church. They are taking their "demands" to the media. The first time I visited their site, I found a lengthy list of absolute demands that were posted there. I'm not sure why they were removed, but I found them disturbing. I wonder if all the women who have posted profiles on the Ordain Women website are familiar with that list of demands, as some people I have spoken with did not know such a list ever existed.

As members of the Church, we are imperfect beings and some men in leadership positions may not understand the importance of women and their contribution. This may result in some women feeling they are marginalized. However, that in no way justifies a demand to receive the priesthood. I personally have never felt unappreciated in my role within the family or the Church. In fact, a careful study of the temple ceremony reveals that women do have roles within the priesthood.
I have a testimony of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. As part of that testimony, I believe in and sustain President Thomas S. Monson as its president and prophet to the world. I also believe that the priesthood is the power of God. It is His power to be distributed as He sees fit. It is not a political or social tool, the holding of which is determined by vote, popularity or pressure. He and only He can decide upon whom to grant this priesthood and its keys. To "demand" otherwise is to not truly understand the process of revelation. It is our right to question, to ponder, and to receive personal revelation. It has never been our right to demand.

Update: After writing this post, I found this quote by President Ezra Taft Benson that I thought was relevant to the topic. “How we respond to the words of a living prophet when he tells us what we need to know, but would rather not hear, is a test of our faithfulness.”

Note: If you choose to comment on this blog or the facebook post, please be polite to those who may not share your viewpoints. I do not mean to belittle sisters who believe differently from me. I just want to go on record as to what I believe.