Thursday, June 30, 2016

It's the Bulls and the Blood...

I love Garth Brooks and I love a good rodeo. One of our favorite rodeos is the Strawberry Days Rodeo in Pleasant Grove. They put on a great show. Rodeos are definitely not concerned with being politically correct. Liberals and PETA must hate rodeos. Maybe that's why I love them.
Grandad, Grammy, Me, Shanelle, Erik, Kolton, Parker
Baylie, Asher, Jalen, Camden
Jalen and Asher decided to do the cash cow.
They were pretty bugged to miss out on the big money.
Bareback riding.
Steer wrestling. (I liked it better when they called it bull dogging.)
Team roping.
 Saddle bronc riding.
Calf roping.
Barrel racing.
Bull riding is always an exciting event. There's always such an element of danger.
These clowns really protect the cowboys.
Jalen's favorite part was the motorcycle stuntmen. (I could have skipped that part all together.)
Upside down.
I think rodeos remind me of a way of life that has faded and is at risk of being lost all together. My dad grew up on a ranch and I grew up surrounded by horses and cattle. I think it's sad that my kids don't get to experience that the way I did. I'm proud of the fact that one family of my cousins still support themselves as cowboys.

Westward Ho!

So much has happened over the last couple of weeks that I realized if I didn't start writing things down, the whole summer would go by undocumented. And that would be a shame.

The kids and I flew out of Charlotte on Thursday, June 16th. The flights went smoother than usual and we only got bumped once - in Chicago. Jalen actually prayed that we would get bumped so he could play in the children's museum at the airport. It worked out better because the flight we ended up on had way more seats and we were able to sit together. We've always been fortunate in that I've never had to sit far from my kids and usually we're right next to each other. That's always a worry when flying standby.

On Saturday, we headed up to Cache Valley for the Mountain Crest High School 30 year reunion. It's truly hard to believe that so much time has gone by. We stayed with my mission companion, Beth. She is the most amazing person. 
She was the most obedient missionary I knew and I've always been grateful that I got to spend so much of my mission with her. We were companions for almost six months at the end of the world (Rio Gallegos, Argentina - we had penguins!). Rio Gallegos is a dark place in the winter and it was an interesting place to be. We were the only sister missionaries there with six elders. The eight of us were 14 hours away from the closest missionaries. We lived on rice and powdered milk and were almost always cold. We were both transferred out to the same zone where we saw each other regularly for the final six months of my mission. She used to sing to me to wake me up in the morning and would always do crazy things for me like leave notes on the ceiling for me to see when I woke up. 
Poor thing had been caught in an oil spill.
She is the one person David has my permission to marry if I die before him. She watched the kids while I was at my reunion. Actually "watched" isn't the right word. She took them up the canyon to roast hot dogs and marshmallows and go for a hike. They had a blast. Thanks to his gloves obsession, Jalen was thrilled to clean her kitchen. 
Prior to the official reunion, a few of us met at a local park. This was actually my fault. I wasn't going to the reunion because I didn't want to travel all the way across the country for a dinner. Plus, I wanted people to meet my kids since the last time I went, I didn't have children. One of my best friends from high school, Danny, reserved a pavilion for a picnic. After that, I had to go!
Me and Danny.
Later that night there was a dinner at the Utah State University Alumni House. It was fun to see everyone, especially since with the passage of time everyone is more self confident and happy. It was great to see that. I especially enjoyed seeing how many of my classmates are happily married and active in the Church. It was kind of like when Alma meets up again with the sons of Mosiah (Alma 17:2-3).
The class of '86 - at least those that came. 
Like many others, my high school years were filled with ups and downs, but I was blessed with wonderful friends - many of them boys. Two of the best were Danny and Lance. I wanted to compare the picture I took with them at our 5 year reunion with one at our 30th. I think we've aged well. (They've gotten fatter and I've gotten skinnier :).)
I didn't get anyone's permission to post their pictures, but they're on the reunion facebook page, so I guess it's okay.
Brenda - we were also in the same ward and are now both moms of transracially adopted children.
Kimberly - her son (Elder Loos) served in the Columbia mission where I was his personal paparazzi.
Denise - volleyball teammate.
Mark - awesome photographer and transracially adopted dad.
(He looked EXACTLY like Duckie from Pretty in Pink when we were in high school.)
Lance, Lori, Julie, me, Danny
Me, Paul, Holly
The 80's were seriously the best decade. What a fun time to be in high school.
The next morning was Father's Day. We had celebrated with David the previous Sunday since we knew we wouldn't be with him on the actual day. We stopped in Riverton on the way back to Provo so we could see Papa Frank and the kids could sing to him in sacrament meeting. Jalen wouldn't go up, but Baylie did. She was very nervous, but she did it. 
With Papa Frank (David's stepson).
David's sister, Casey, and her son were also there so we got to see them as well.
We made it in time to sing to Grandad as well. Afterwards, we met my brother Erik and his family to cook out in the canyon. These are the kinds of activities that I miss so much living far from family.
Parker, Uncle Erik, Grandad
Jalen loves his cousin Asher. Asher was Baylie's best friend when they were babies, but now it's these two boys that are best buds.
They comandeered Grandad's chair.
Aunt Shanelle and Baylie photobombed by Grandad.
Shanelle made Grandad a Yardzee game for Father's Day. It's a giant version of Yahtzee and was a big hit.
Tinfoil dinners.
We made peach and apple cobblers in dutch ovens. Yum!
Mouthfuls of whipped cream.
It was a great start to our western adventure.

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Welcome to Summer!

I love summer! I love not having to wake up with an alarm clock, not being on a schedule, staying up late, relaxing and being with my kids. I try to keep summer as unscheduled as possible. That being said, I do have a plan. My kids do homework and read almost every day over the summer. (One of them enjoys it much more than the other.)
We started our summer by saying goodbye to our good friends the Stones. Jensen and Charlie have come home with us pretty much every school day since shortly after Christmas and have become more than friends. We miss them a lot. For one final goodbye, I checked them out of school early and we went to the zoo's new splashpad -  Waterfall Junction (which is awesome by the way).
Before I picked up the kids from their last day of school, I decorated the car. I found these really cool window crayons at WalMart. They are easy to use and wash off with a spray of water. Definitely going to have some fun with these.
One of our favorite summer kickoffs is the annual Storyfest at the State Museum. It's a fun event the first Saturday after school gets out that starts the summer reading programs at the county libraries. They give out free books and have the authors available to sign autographs, there is face painting, crafts, snacks, story telling, etc. It's always a fun day. 
While there we ran into our friends the Baltzeggars. Thank goodness their mom had her camera because I didn't have a phone or a camera and would have missed out on any pictures.
The State Museum is right across from the Edventure Children's Museum so after Storyfest we went over for a quick visit there as well. We have a great children's museum. 

On Tuesday, the kids and I went to walk over the Saluda Dam, otherwise known as the Lake Murray Dam. It's a fun walk, but we've never gone all the way across before. It's about 1.7 miles each way for a 3.4 mile round trip - essentially a 5K. Last time Jalen and I went, we stopped half way. At the time of its completion, the Saluda Dam was the world's largest earthen dam, creating the world's largest man-made lake.
We got to the half way point and Jalen wanted to turn back, but Baylie wanted to keep going. I encouraged them to set a goal and push for it, even though it was hard. I would like to think it was my rousing speech that kept them going, but I'm pretty sure it was actually the bribe of ice cream.
These towers are control the hydroelectric power produced by the dam. They're cool looking.
Jalen loves this electric cart that goes from the dam to the turbines. I'm half afraid he will crawl over the wall and try to get up there sometime.
Once we made it all the way across, we decided to walk down to a dock and soak our feet. It was a fun little break.
They decided to dunk their heads as well.
The deck was a perfect spot to walk out on with the last section just slightly under water.
Lake Murray has an interesting history. It was used for bombing target practice during World War II.
I was really proud of the kids for walking all the way over and back without complaining (much). I was a totally lame parent because I realized I didn't have any money and couldn't take them for ice cream. I'd left my purse at home and only had my driver's license. Fortunately, we had ice cream at home, so we settled for that instead.

The kids are counting down the days until we head to Utah.